Author: Scott

Happily ever after simply means that both partners are known, valued, accepted for who they are and who they are becoming. The goal is to be able to love your partner more deeply each and every year you are together.

Don’t rob your partner of the intimacy of being on the same page.

Toxic positivity leads to blowups, burnouts, feeling alone, and going nowhere. Honesty deepens your connection and grows intimacy in the long run.

When you are not emotional present you are forcing your partner to go through life alone.

Simple, yet one of the most valuable pieces of advice anyone can receive. Two heads are better than one. Helping each other reframe the situation while sharing an alternative perspective called synergy.

One sentence can save your entire relationship. Hey babe, is now a convenient time to talk about insert subject? Give each other time to be in the right headspace (including cooling down if necessary), create goals, and refine there views to include being the same page.

A little communication goes suchhhhh a long way. if you’re busy, say it. If you are upset, express it. If you’re running late, let people know. If you don’t want to do something, be straightforward. if you’re unsure, ask. It is so simple but so so so important.

I love that feeling when you talk stuff out with someone and you both become aware the neither of you was wrong. You just saw the scenario differently. Talking really should be about seeing things from their perspective, rather than the need to be right.

It means that we are willing to walk alongside another person in whatever journey they’re on without judging them, making them feel inadequate, trying to fix them, or trying to impact the outcome. When we hold space for other people, we open our hearts, offer unconditional support and let go of judgment and control.

There is a common saying, “Happy Wife, Happy Life”. This is true but it doesn’t stop there.